Time marches on

It’s been a while since I’ve posted. Three months, actually! I don’t like to post just for the sake of posting and appreciate those who are still reading.

In the last few months, I’ve continued to plan for my future in France. It’s amazing to look back at the long list of to-do items in my last post and to see how much progress I’ve made. In fact, I’m much further along than I expected to be at this point.

Last month, I found the perfect renter for my condo. Our lives have crossed with so much synergy, it feels nothing short of a vigorous nod to my plans. I’ve rented a small storage unit and started to move a few things into it. And, earlier this week, I submitted my visa application and had my appointment to begin the process.

I’ve also submitted my notice of retirement! With just two months of work left, I look for ways to emotionally detach from my job while I continue to meet demands and set my replacement up for success.

These are big milestones! They also felt like very big hurdles just a short time ago. In so many ways, the worst case stories I’ve heard so much about have simply proven to be other people’s stories.

The next challenge is accommodation in France. I’ve booked an AirBnB apartment for 3 months but have also applied for a long-term rental that I hope to land before I get there.

This part of the process has provided some surprises, not in the process itself but in my focus. I’ve been all over the place with what I want in terms of size, furnishings, etc. Last month, I was sitting in my condo marveling at how beautiful it is – how much I love my home! I realized that I need to feel the same thing in France, so I’ve increased my housing budget and expanded my parameters. It may mean not as much travel or maybe not getting a car, but this choice feels very clear to me.

My countdown app tells me that I leave for France in 12 weeks and 2 days. By now, I have so little left on my to-do list that time has slowed way down. It almost feels painful to have to wait. But, before I know it, I’ll be navigating my next chapter and missing my friends and family here. For now, I’ll pass the time with meaningful social engagements, appreciate them all!